Hard to Find Christmas movie
I used to watch a Christmas movie with a British Grandfather who served in the Anglo-Boer War. He gave a bugle to his Grandson. I think it took place in the 1940s, though it was made much later. The boy had to play Mary in the Nativity because there weren't enough girls.
It may have been "made for TV" and came on every year. I've done tons of searches with no luck.